His recent split from Paltrow
In his first interview since his "conscious uncoupling" with Gwyneth Paltrow last month,Chris Martin shed new insight into the demise of their marriage. The Coldplay frontman addressed their surprising separation—and touched on his own personal issues—while speaking to BBC Radio.
He was asked if relationship had brokedown, he said:
"I wouldn't use the word breakdown," Martin said. "This was more a realization about trying to grow up basically. Like I said, if you can't open yourself up, you can't appreciate the wonder inside. So you can be with someone very wonderful, but because of your own issues you cannot let that be celebrated in the right way. What changed for me was—I don't want to go through life being scared of it, being scared of love, being scared of rejection, being scared of failure. Ever since our band came out, we have been a very polarizing group because we do a certain thing very well...About two years ago I was a mess really because I can't enjoy the thing that we are good at and I can't enjoy the great things around me because I'm burdened by this—I've got to not blame anyone else and make some changes."
While the musician doesn't directly address his 10-year marriage to Paltrow, it's easy to read between the lines. When Martin, 37, and Paltrow, 41, announced their split, the exes said they had been "working hard for well over a year" on their relationship. Ghost Storieswill address such struggles reports E News.